benchmark

*..sigh..*… I just called a schoolmate (whom I’m not so close with) to ask for her address. Normal reaction; “why? U’re getting married?”… like there’s nothing else better to do... normally when i replied with NO, ppl will react back with “oooo.. I thought u’re getting married..”. fullstop! to my surprise, she said “thank god, coz if u’re getting married then sure enough I’ll be in stressed since u’re the benchmark..”???!!! f*^k! that is rude...!!! I can easily and happily face the fact that I’m 25, and still single, pursuing my dreams day after day. It’s not that marriage is something that u do after u are in a 3 years relationship, get married today, love someone else tomorrow!